Pai Thailand With Kids and Family (Guide)

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Pai is a small town and district in the north of Thailand in Mae Hong Son Province, not far from the Myanmar border. It has long been a destination for backpackers, digital nomads and long term slow travellers with a cool relaxed hippie vibe, low prices, and rural surrounds. Pai isn’t really a mainstream tourist destination, but for backpackers of all ages it’s a must stay, with many people, including families with kids, opting to stay weeks or months. If you don’t have the time, you can also see Pai on a daytrip from Chiang Mai, book that here.


This post covers things to do in Pai, where to stay, how to get there, best restaurants in Pai, plus facts about Pai in the north of Thailand. We visited with kids recently, but this was our third time in Pai, it’s a nice place to visit.


pai scenery
Pai images – rural countryside, rice, trees, water. Pai is a beautiful spot.

Pai isn’t a “must see” in Thailand, but it makes a very nice place to stay if you are exploring the north. You can visit Pai on a road trip from Chiang Mai by hiring your own vehicle, or there are buses and minivans that will take you there. Pai is also included on some tours departing from Chiang Mai.

If you’re visiting Paiwith kids I’d suggest taking the bus is better than a minivan. One of my kids always got sick in minivans so we did our best to avoid them. Renting your own car is a great option for families.

If you plan to tour Northern Thailand by car, use this tool to find the best deal on car hire and read our Northern Thailand Itinerary post. (open here, it will open in a new tab for you). Self driving around northern Thailand is actually very easy and cheap, with very little traffic and congestion outside of big cities. We really do encourage you to consider car hire for your trip to Pai, if you have the correct driving license.

Where Is Pai Thailand?

The town of Pai is in Pai District, Mae Hong Son Province, in the far north-west of Thailand. in Southeast Asia. Pai is located less than 100Km from the Myanmar (Burma) border. The town is in Northern Thailand’s highlands 129 Km north west (3 hours drive by road) of Chiang Mai city and located 306 km south west of Chiang Rai (drive time 6 hours). The town is at an elevation of 510m or 1673 feet in altitude, bringing cooler weather to the region. Mae Hong Son town is 106 km (2 hours 20 mins) by road from Pai on the Mae Hong Son Loop.

Our map above shows Pai’s location, plus all of your accommodation options in and around Pai, you can use it to zoom in and out, and please do use it to book your hotel. The map is centred on the Pai Walking street.

How To Get To Pai?

You can get to Pai by bus, minibus or minivan, taxi, private car, or tour. Pai has no airport, so you can’t get to Pai by air, the closest airports are in Chiang Mai and Mae Hong Son. If you don’t want to stay a few days in Pai, you can take a daytrip to Pai from Chiang Mai and see most of Pai’s attractions with a guide, book that here on Viator, very easy and a good price! Alternatively GetYourGuide offer a similar tour here.

Pai by Minivan or Minibus

The fastest and probably most convenient way to get to to Pai from Chiang Mai is to book a seat on a backpacker minibus or minivan. You can catch a minibus from Chiang Mai bus station or Chiang Mai Arcade 2 and the drive time is 4 hours, traffic allowing. 

The ticket price for a bus to Pai from Chiang Mai is from 240THB (2023) one way per person for the ride. This could change, so please double check prices and times. You are likely to be fairly uncomfortable and car sickness is quite common on these buses. Kids are normally free if they can sit on your lap, but you may have to negotiate this. Book a ticket here, online.

The dozens of travel agents around Chiang Mai can also book for you, this may be more expensive as they obviously take a commission and you need to invest more time in finding an agent and agreeing a price. Minibuses run frequently, the link above will give you times.

Pai by Public Bus or Coach

You can also book a bus ticket here, prive from 240 THB This site will give yoou all available bus types and timings from Chiang Mai to Pai, with prices, it’s a great tool in getting around Thailand.

Self Drive to Pai

As we mentioned above, exploring Thailand by hire car is cheap, easy, and a great option. We’ve done it ourselves and had no problems. The roads were almost free of traffic outside the big cities.

A motorbike, moped, or scooter is another option but we don’t recommend it. Make sure you have the correct driving license and that you have insurance and excess insurance.

The drive to Pai is part of the Mae Hong Son loop, a very scenic drive that will take you on to Mae Hong Son (a very beautiful city and a great place to spot local long-neck Karen tribespeople), Mae Sariang with a stop at Doi Inthanon. There are a lot of hill tribe villages in this area too, which you can visit by car.

Once in Pai you could rent a scooter or moped to get around (there is no public transport, but there are songtaews that will take you to the viewpoint) scooters cost about 150 Baht per day.

Daytrip to Pai

There are day trips to Pai available from Chiang Mai, but you will be spending a lot of time on the road in your vehicle, however, this is a good way to see all the highlights of Pai and the surrounding area, fast. Book here for a 1 day tour with driver.

Pai by Taxi or Private Transfer

If you have a large budget you can book a taxi or private driver with vehicle to take you to Pai. This will cost around 4500 THB for a car, from 3,850 THB for a minivan, and can work out fairly cheap per person for a family or group of friends. Book this here.

Pai by Air

There are no flights to Pai because there is no airport at Pai. The closest airports would be either Chiang Mai or Mae Hong Son. From either airport you could book a private transfer or taxi to Pai town itself. (see links above to book this.)

Pai by Train

There is no train station in Pai, you can’t travel to Pai by train. The nearest train station to Pai is probably Chiang Mai Central. To book the sleeper train from Bangkok to Chiang Mai, go here. It’s a great journey. We have a post on this train ride here.

What Is Pai Famous For?

Pai is famous for featuring in the 2009 film Pai in Love, but it was famous long before this in travellers’ circles as an inland destination in Thailand with a relaxed hippie vibe. It has long been a feature on the backpacker circuit in Southeast Asia, particularly for slow travellers or digital nomads.

Interestingly, I first visited Pai in the late 90s, when this little town was even more sleepy, it’s much more developed for tourism today, as is all of Thailand. Today Pai is famous for night markets, cheap accommodation, plus some nice luxury and boutique hotels, and a thriving vegan and vegetarian food scene.

This part og Thailand is also famous for the yellow flowers which bloom in winter, around late October to December. The roadsides and fields of Thung Bua Tong Forest Park at Doi Mar Ou Kor will be covered with these yellow flowers, it’s quite spectacular and this is a great time to visit Mae Hong Son district.

Where To Eat in Pai

Food in Pai

Pai is bursting with restaurants and you will find some good food here. Search out the smaller places, the food tends to be more authentic, cheaper, and better. Vegan and vegetarian food are specialities in Pai and you will find plenty of street food stalls at the night market or walking street.

If you’re looking for the best restaurants in Pai, check out Charlie and Lek, Khao Soi Zisters, Cafecico (Mexican food) and Two Sisters Restaurant.

Witching Well Restaurant and Winebar is potentially the best western (Italian) restaurant in Pai, but isn’t budget.

Maya Burger Queen has very good burgers in Pai.

As always, restaurants and chefs can have bad days. The restaurants above are generally agreed to be very good, depending on what sort of food you’re looking for.

Best Time To Visit Pai

Best time to visit Pai Thailand
Visit Pai in Thailand when the Mexican sunflowers, bua tong, are in bloom.

The best time to visit Pai and Thailand, is in winter and autumn months, October to February, with some quite cool temperatures at night in Pai. Days should be clear and sunny and rain should be scarce.

This is also the busiest time in Pai, so book your hotel, hostel or guest house, plus and activities, in advance. From Oct to December you should also catch the yellow flowers, bua tong, in bloom.

The burning season (March to May, spring to early summer) which causes terrible pollution in Chiang Mai can also affect Pai, so this is probably not a good time to visit. Check local air quality websites for the current situation, such as this one. There isn’t much rain at this time of year, the monsoon rains clean the air in June through to September.

Things to Do in Pai

Pai is a place to chill out and relax, primarily, but there are a few minor tourist attractions in and near Pai, the most well known is probably Lod Cave, it’s very near Pai. Daytrips to Pai will normally take you to the Chinese village, historic bridges and temples, with maybe a coffee or strawberry farm visit. The white Buddha (Big Buddha) in Pai is quite well known.

To get the most out of Pai you have to stay and see the night market and relax on the river.

Pai Walking Street or Night Market

This is probably the #1 thing to do in Pai and the walking street or night market is held in the centre of Pai town nightly at Wiang Tai near the Pai bus station. (it’s the centre of our map, above)

The market features arts and crafts, often in northern Thailand these will be Hill Tribe crafts, plus abundant food and drink stalls. The walking street is a great place to shop, eat, or just hang out.

Tham Lod Cave

Lod Cave Pai
Tham Lod Cave near Pai Thailand

Tham Lod Cave (often known as just Lod Cave) is in Mae Hong Son district 49 km from Pai town. If you have your own vehicle, visit it on the way to Mae Hong Son. If not, book a tour to Lod Cave from Pai.

The caves can easily be a full day out as there are other attractions on site and gardens to explore. Inside the caves you can see a few ancient paintings plus stalactites and stalagmites. The main novelty here is that the caves are partially filled with water and have to be accessed on a bamboo raft with a guide.

The female (mostly, maybe all) guides must be hired at the admission gate and they will take you into the cave with a lantern.

Human remain over 1,400 years old have been found inside Lod Cave, now known as Pee Man.

Visit Santichon Yunnan Chinese Village in Pai

Santichon village was built by Chinese immigrants to Thailand, from Yunnan Province in China. This village features Chinese dragons, traditional Chinese music and good Yunnanese food.

If you visit Santichon Vilasge on a tour a traditional Chinese tea ceremony is usually part of your visit. There are some amusements on site, such as cosplay, you can borrow Chinese costumes for photography purposes, and there is usually a small Ferris wheel operating.

Santichon village opening hours are normally 7 am to 6 pm daily.

Where to stay for Santichon Village? This hotel (below) is very near the Chinese Village attraction, outside Pai. Book it on Agoda here or on Booking dot com here.

Yunnan Chinese Village in Pai

Visit Yun Lai Viewpoint

Sunrise viewpoint pai
Sunrise viewpoint, Pai Thailand

Yun Lai viewpoint is at elevation and as such offers panoramic views of Santichon Village, Pai town, and the green countryside around Pai. Again, this viewpoint has some heavy Chinese theming with street food and decorations. Yun Lai viewpoint is just 15 mins drive from the centre of Pai and from Mo Paeng Watefall. The viewpoint is 6 km from Pai, so you could potentially walk here.

Surprisingly for a viewpoint, it’s not free, there is a 20 THB admission ticket. It’s open sunrise to sunset with the best views being at those times. To see the sunrise you need to be there around 6am. There is a cafe here so you can get a coffee and breakfast.

Pai Canyon

Pai Canyon is another tourist attraction near Pai. It;s a very small canyon, about 1km in size, it’s a good place to go for a short walk but take care, the rocks can be slippery. It’s quite a scenic place with good views.

Pai Canyon is 8km south Pai town ,past Love Strawberry Pai, you will need your own vehicle to get there. There is no entry fee and you can visit at any time.

Pai Bamboo Bridge

Pai Bamboo Bridge (Bun Ko Ku So) is an 800-meter long bridge made of bamboo supported by bamboo and iron pillars. It stretches accross rice fiels and was built by locals to allow monks to walk easily between the temple and the village. Before it was made, the monks had to walk 6 km from the temple to the local village for their daily alms collection.

There are swings for tourists to take their Instagram photos. If you follow the bridge it will take you to a Buddhist temple , or you can feed fish along the way by buying a bag of fish food.

The Pai Bamboo Bridge also has an admission fee, ticket prices 30THB per person

The Bamboo Bridge is about 11km southwest of Pai on the same road that takes you to Pam Bok Waterfall and Pai Land Split. It’s an easy drive if you have your own car or scooter.You will need a private vehicle to cover the distance. This is 11 km south-east of Pai and the roads are not very easy or convenient to drive on. Be extra careful since sometimes insurance on the vehicle isn’t covered in this area.

Visit Chedi Pra That Mae Yen

Chedi Pra That Mae Yen has the famous white Buddha or “Big Buddha” in Pai. Phra That Mae Yen Wat is located on a hill, to the east of Pai, behind Mae Yen village.

You’ll also find some golden chedis here. It’s a nice temple to take a look at and the Big Buddha is quite impressive. The “Big Buddha” is at the top of the hill, up 353 steps, take water, and be prepared for a 20 minute or so uphill hike.

As this is a religious site you should dress respectfully, cover shoulders and knees and remove hats.

See Pai Historical Bridge, Tha Pai Bridge

Pai Bridge

Ta-Pai Bridge is of historical significance, as it has been built and rebuilt many times. Today, it visually resembles the Bridge on the River Quai in Kanchanaburi, as it’s modern form was also a WWII construction.

The original bridge over the Pai river to Tha Pai village was made of wood and was built by the local villagers using elephants. During the Second World War Thailand’s occupying Japanese forces had the bridge rebuilt

After the Japanese left, they destroyed the bridge. But the villagers came together once again to reconstruct the bridge for their use. In 1973, the bridge was again washed away in the floods. On the request of locals, a steel bridge was put in place that stands even today on the Pai River.

Waterfalls Near Pai (Namtok Mo Paeng)

Thereare a lot of waterfalls near Pai with Mo Paeng Waterfall probably being the closest and most popular. This one has swimming holes too. Some are close to the road, others you’ll need to hike to.

Again, you’ll need your own vehicle to find most of these nearby beauty spots.

Rafting and Tubing in Pai

The Pai river runs through Pai and when we visited it was very low, but rafting and tubing are popular activities in Pai as they are in Vang Vieng in Laos.

Hill Tribes Near Pai

Hill tribe museum near Pai
Hill tribe museum near Pai

There are hill tribe villages around Pai and you can visit them in a private vehicle. We were able to find a long neck Karen village near Mai Hong Son and there were other tribes in the neighbourhood.

We also found a small Hill Tribe museum by exploring in the car. You really just have to go out and look for them or ask a local. We found them quite by chance. Coincidentally, the first village we found was one I’d visited some 20 years previously on a group tour.

Trekking Near Pai

Other activities in and around Pai include camping, trekking in the jungle, hill tribe village visits, bird watching and other animal based activities of varying types

Years ago, before it wasn’t OK, I’ve been elephant trekking in the jungles near Pai, where villages kept elephants and made a living that way. I doubt those elephants are still there as without tourist income, why feed a huge animal? Who knows what happened to them. They’re probably contributing to Thailand’s massive problem with unemployed elephants.

Tha Pai Hot Spring

There are a lot of hot springs at varying temperatures, used for bathing and boiling eggs in this part of Thailand, with Pai having hot springs not far away. There is even a Pai Hot Springs spa resort for thermal bathers to get the most out of the therapeutic waters.

The closest hot springs are 8 km away from Pai town and you will need your own vehicle or a taxi to get there.

Tha Pai Hot Spring ticket price is 200THB for foreign tourists to enter the Park, 100THB for children. Additional 20THB for the Hot springs. 20THB for parking a vehicle. As always, double check the price as these can change without notice.

There is also a Pai Hotsprings Spa Resorts. They have their own hot water baths that you can enjoy at only 100THB with a lovely rural view. Free for hotel guests.

Love Strawberry Pai

Tourist of some nationalities seem to love to pick strawberries. This is something we’ve observed in Malaysia, as well as in Northern Thailand. For those of us from the UK where strawberries grow with no difficulty, there’s just no novelty in these commercial pick-your-own strawberry farms. But, should you wish to pick and eat strawberries in Thailand, you can do this in Pai.

Love Strawberry Pai also has strawberry based food and drinks to enjoy.

Where To Stay In Pai

Pai is a very small town with accommodation options in the town itself, and in the surrounding countryside areas. If you have your own vehicle consider hotels and guest houses outside town, if you do not, book a central place to stay. There is no public transport in Pai, so if your lodging is outside town you will be pretty stuck.

There are some nice places along the Pai river, plus many boutique and more luxury resorts in and around Pai. If you’re looking for an apartment rental or VRBO stay, take a look at the options on our Pai map, above, otherwise consider the following hotels.

For a budget stay in Pai try Bueng Pai Farm stay, this one is a little outside town but has a lovely waterside setting (below).

where to stay in Pai

For somewhere nice, take a look at Pai Village Boutique Resort, this one is very well located and has rural Thailand charm. (below)

Best Places to stay in Pai

For a luxury resort stay in the Thai countryside, choose Reverie Siam Resort, this one is an amazing location, with great food. (Great for a romantic surprise weekend away!)

Best places in Pai to stay

Thanks for visiting our post on Pai, we love this part of the world and we hope you have a great day, week, or month in Pai Thailand. If you’re planning a trip to Thailand, we have more tips for you!

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Alyson Long
Alyson Long is a British medical scientist who jumped ship to chase dreams. A former Chief Biomedical Scientist at London's West Middlesex Hospital she started in website creation and travel writing in 2011. Alyson is a full-time blogger and travel writer, a published author, and owns several websites. World Travel Family is the biggest. A lifetime of wanderlust and over 6 years of full-time travel, plus a separate 12 month gap year, has given Alyson and the family some travel expert smarts to share with you on this world travel site. Today Alyson still travels extensively to update this site and continue her mission to visit every country, but she's often at home on her farm in Australia.

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