If you’ve been following us right from the start, you’ll know that I always said I’d never travel with carry on only. I even wrote a post about why we’d never travel light, we just had too much stuff as long-term travellers and the children were too small for their own, decent sized, packs. Well that was then, this is now and lately we’ve turned to carry on only travel and become quite proficient as our circumstances have changed. These days we’re more like you, we’re taking shorter trips and we have our home base in beautiful Romania to stash the toys and school books along with the all-weather travel gear. Travel is more of a holiday or vacation for us now, rather than our lifestyle so the carry on bags and pared down packing are becoming more normal.
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Why Carry On Travel is Easier
- The fewer bags you have, the less likely you are to lose one or have one stolen
- Dodge budget airline fees for checked baggage
- No waiting to check bags in
- No waiting at airport carousels for bags to appear
- No chance of the airline losing your bag
- Easier onward travel by bus, taxi or train
- Packing and unpacking are less of a drama
- Fewer clothes makes for a simpler life. Minimalism reduces stress
- Lighter bags are easier on your body
I should say here that I don’t find any of the above advantages to be HUGE advantages and there certainly are disadvantages. It’s nice to have a big pack that you can dump in the airport or at your accommodation, leaving you with less to carry every day. A few extra minutes at the airport is no big deal and I actually enjoy carrying a full-sized backpack and the convenience of having everything we need. So for big trips, we still take the big packs, every time. But, being based in Europe these days, we fly budget airlines frequently and carry on luggage saves us a lot of money on these short-hop flights making this sort of travel convenient but still for long-term….no way! We need our laptops, camera gear, toys and school books, also laundry every other day is a real bind and ties you down. That said, the kids have never checked a bag. We grown ups carried their school books, toiletries and electronics, so all they carried was a small bag of clothes until they were old enough for adult sized carry on luggage.
Items You Can’t Take in Carry On Luggage
It’s not possible to carry sharp objects when you travel carry on only, so items that were essential to us when we were on the road full-time now have to stay at home. These include
- Our pen knives, with cork screw, for wine-opening emergencies.
- Nail scissors, for nails, hair, every scissor-requiring situation.
- My tripod
- Marmite (unless you know how to smuggle it )
- Regular sized bottles of shampoo, sunblock, etc are banned. All liquids need to be under 100ml in volume and be stashed in a clear plastic zip-lock bag. Yes, toothpaste counts as liquid, so does Marmite, as my husband discovered last week. We used to find the idea of buying on arrival or dumping before departure terribly wasteful and unnecessarily expensive, but now, with a home base, we can decant into mini travel-sized bottles or easily stock up on perfect carry on toiletries.
Items We Need For Long Term Family Travel That We Don’t Need for Carry On Travel
Shorter trips are normally focused on one climate, one destination, so multi-climate gear isn’t needed, neither is multi-activity gear. So for Nepal we don’t need swimwear, for London we don’t need sleeping bags, for Sri Lanka we don’t need hiking boots. Shorter trips are much easier to pack for. These days we know before we leave if we’ll need to take our mosquito nets, sheet sleeping bag liners and down jackets, the necessity for big bags is diminished.
School books, notebooks, pens and pencils , on short trips we don’t carry them. It’s easier to juggle old-school education with education-as-travel now we have a home base. If you want to learn more about worldschooling and travel on the road, including what resources we normally use, click-through.
Likewise, Lego, Harry Potter Wands, Bakugan and 25 cuddly animals don’t need to travel with us full-time any more. My kids do not take toys, other than 2 essential bears, on short trips ( by that I mean up to a couple of months).
What Bag to Choose for Carry On Luggage
We have 2 main carry on backpacks, one for each child. One is a Mountain Warehouse 45L trekking pack ( no longer available) that we used on our Himalayan trek, the other is the rather splendid Farpoint, below. The adult size works for him at 10 years old, now 11, and hopefully will fit him right into adulthood. It also fits Chef and I so the whole family can use it if we need to.
We’ve invested in the Rolls Royce of carry on backpacks, the Osprey Farpoint 40 ( the Fairpoint is the women’s version). It’s a great bag and comes with a lifetime guarantee but it is slightly, only slightly, too big for Air Asia size regulations. We’re hoping we’ll be OK, we’ll let you know, but there was nothing of a decent standard that met AirAsia’s specifications. This belongs to one of the kids and hopefully will be their luggage for life.
Advantages of the Farpoint as Carry on Luggage:
- superb quality
- a good, comfortable harness with hip strap
- harness zips away when needed
- multiple internal pockets and compartments
- brightly coloured inside, so much easier to find things
- good compression straps for load stability and to make it look smaller at airports.
- compart,ments can be padlocked
- laptop pocket
- lifetime guarantee
- perfect EU carry on size
Personally I prefer a back pack, I find them more convenient, others prefer the wheely bags, carry on sized hard luggage on wheels. There are advantages and disadvantages to both, it’s really up to you. We have a post on the choice of backpack, travel pack or suitcase.
Packing List and Tips for Carry On Only
Carry On Only Travel Toiletries
I LOVE this shampoo! It makes my hair fabulous, smells amazing and works for carry on. Click the image.
We’re having great success with solid alternatives to traditional liquid toiletries for carry on only travel. We now always carry solid shampoo bars and solid deodorants. We swear by LUSH products but other solid toiletries are available including tooth powders.
- Solid shampoo. ( I ADORE the smell of Karma and what it does for my hair) We can use this as soap or to hand wash clothes too. You’ll also need the smart, functional travel tin.
- Miniature ( acquired from hotels) or travel-sized conditioner
- Solid deodorant. It really works and is less health-impacting than chemical sprays, I bought it for my 11 year old, now we all use it.
- Toothbrush. We often buy toothpaste on arrival. Tooth powder will be my next purchase.
- Antibacterial hand gel, depending on destination.
- Small pack of sensitive wet wipes or baby wipes, for cleaning faces.
- Disposable razor.
- Travel hair brush
- Occasionally, for cold city travel, I pack my travel hair dryer
- Sanitary Protection
- Mosquito Repellent Wipes or wrist bands work for travelling carry on only, but you will have to buy liquids on arrival
- I’ve not found a satisfactory way of carrying sun block, you will need more than 100ml, buy on arrival.
Medical Kit for Carry On Travel
For short trips, you won’t need to carry a cure for everything. We find, after 3 years of practice, that it’s best to carry a small stock of the things you may need. People rarely get sick or injure themselves near the shop you want.
We always carry
- Plasters ( band aids)
- Paracetamol. Chewable paracetamol for the kids
- Travel sickness tablets and wrist bands, child friendly ( these are also antihistamines)
- Small bandage and dressings
- Iodine in a tiny bottle
- A few indigestion tablets
- Various supplements and vitamins
For longer term or more adventurous travel, I’m never without my travel-sized ear thermometer. With kids it’s better to be safe than sorry and I need to know exactly how bad that fever is. Sometimes I take it when we travel carry on only, sometimes I don’t, I do a mommy risk assessment.
Carry On Only Travel Clothes
One full change of clothes each is all that we’ve found we really need. Usually we carry 2 pairs of trousers, we wear one, pack one. Depending on climate we’ll also pack leggings to use as pajamas or an extra layer. We may carry more tops to allow us to layer in colder weather. This list is per person, we may throw in a few extra T shirts for the kids if there is room. We like to leave with less-full bags so that we have room to buy clothes and souvenirs at our destination.
- 2 pairs of trousers each. I prefer jeans but most normal people buy “travel” trousers that are small and light to pack, crease resistant and easy to wash and dry. Trousers that zip off to make shorts are another popular option.
- Leggings, thermal. For kids and for adults.
- Swimwear and UV resistant rashies as needed
- Travel towel ( my favourite thing!) We’ve tried a few to find the best on the market, click through.
- 2 vest t shirts or tops, sleep wear and a base layer.
- A long sleeved shirt to throw over the top
- 2 long sleeved T shirt or thermal shirt ( my husband and kids have 1 thermal each, I have Primark)
- 2 bras
- 2 socks ( more for cold climates or trekking)
- 5 knickers ( people swear by travel knickers for easy washing and drying, I pefer M&S)
- flip flops or thongs ( for showers, as sandals, to wear on skanky floors)
- hiking or trekking shoes or whatever comfortable shoe you prefer.
- hat ( does for sun and cold)
- large cotton scarf ( so many uses!)
- Sun Glasses
- Reading Glasses
I think that’s it. Did I miss anything?
Carry On Only Travel Electronics
Our major inhibitor with travelling light lies in electronics. We carry camera gear, laptops, kindles and so on. The kids’ small electronic items, are no trouble. When we’re carrying 3 laptops, carry on only just ain’t happening.
This is what we carry for our family of 4, 2 kids. On long term travel we carry 3 laptops and all the camera gear, for shorter trips we cut it right back. The 3DS, music players etc are for the kids.
- Camera and charger (1) I’ve just upgraded to a small DSLR after 12 months of struggling with a broken mirrorless. I’m thrilled! I’m going all ” photographer ” !
- Laptop and charger (1)
- Plug Adaptors (2)
- Kindles ( 1 each) and charger lead (1)
- Phones and chargers (2)
- Rechargable Power Packs (2) HIGHLY recommended for power-less emergencies, particularly with kids, we’ve tested a few and our favourite is a solar charged version, see our findings by clicking through.
- 3DS ( belong to elder child, camera, video, limited games, music)
- Ear plugs (2)
- Mini music players, similar to ipods, but ultra cheap. (2)
Essential Travel Document Check List
- Printed Flight Booking
- Printed Online Check-in Papers
- Printed Hotel Reservation
- Printed Car Hire Papers
- Insurance Papers
- Small stash of cash
- Driving license
If There’s Still Room in Your Carry On Luggage
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Sneaky Tips For Travel With Carry On Only
- Knowing the regulation weight and size of carry on bag should go without saying
- Wear all your heaviest gear to fly and if you’re over weight, wear more! ( we’ve done it!)
- Act like your carry on bag is as light as a feather, casually sling it over one shoulder.
- Airline staff are often far more forgiving of backpacks than hard wheely bags
- If your carry on bag will fit under the seat in front ( soft bags are best) they’ll love you more
- Don’t fold, roll!
- Toothbrushes and dry toiletries can we wrapped in a wash cloth or zip lock bag, ditch the bulky wash bags.
- Keep your small liquids together in a zip lock, ready for customs.
So that’s it, just about everything we’re learnt about flying carry on only, as a family, with one child, or solo, we do it all these days. Did we miss anything? Is there anything we should add?
Let us know in the comments.