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From Flash to Trash. Will Kids Enjoy Budget Travel and Cheap Hotels?

Chef and I have always enjoyed budget travel. We’ve always wanted to get maximum travel for our dollar and to us, fancy hotels aren’t (usually) part of that. We make exceptions for the odd splurge but usually we travel to see the world and to learn from our experiences. We need somewhere to sleep and food to eat and that’s as far as it goes. We don’t care about fancy trimmings.

Budget travel is not torturing kids

Our children, on the other hand, have been spoilt rotten for most of their tiny lives. One of our big worries, before we set off, was, would they adjust to a lower standard of accommodation?

Because of Chef’s work, my kids have been staying in a fancy 5-star resorts, several times a year, for the last few years. The sort of resort we couldn’t possibly afford. Well, we could, but we’d see it as a total waste of money. Some of the richest people in the world have stayed there, along with a good few celebrities. We’ve rubbed shoulders with them.

When we weren’t staying there we’d be eating there. These kids know good food, and a good hotel, when they see one.

If you want to peek, it was this hotel in Port Douglas that was our second home for several years. We highly recommend it!

I was seriously worried that they just wouldn’t cope with the budget end of the spectrum ( extreme budget travel, actually, we’re incredibly tight with the cash, click the link to see how we do it).

Budget Travel With Kids – Realities

The kids generally don’t care about fancy hotels. What they do care about is having their parents with them and their parents engaged in their lives. Kids care about fun and love and feeling wanted and appreciated by their family. Don’t get me wrong, they also want theme parks, ice cream, huge junk food buffets and water slides.

The beauty of budget travel is that what you save on cheap hotels, you can splurge on theme parks. The other beauty of budget travel lies in no adult expectations. Nothing is worse than sharing a hotel with entitled adults who have spent a fortune to be there and don’t want their peace disturbed by children. You’re better off away from that bunch for sure!

There’s a perception in modern society that kids should be outside in the fresh air, camping, playing with sticks, and building dams. I actually don’t agree, I have very computer savvy kids – but that attitude is there and it fully supports the budget travel ethic. Do you see the double standard? Budget travel is exactly that, a simpler life, a simpler way of being, childhood as it was in “the good old days.”

Sea Temple Port Douglas
Sea Temple Port Douglas, our second home and a sensational hotel! That’s Chef in the middle shooting something for a TV show. The pool was incredible, the rooms were luxurious, with plunge pools, two bedrooms, jacuzzis, fluffy towels and bathrobes.

Were these kids ever going to adjust to rooms at $6/night?

Budget travel was on our agenda it wouldn’t be on theirs. We are happy to sacrifice, but did we have any right to make that call for our kids?

They totally surprised us.

Cheap Hotels With Kids

We found that the kids don’t give a flying monkey’s what the accommodation is like. They see charm and novelty in the strangest things, their world is so different from ours and it’s a joy to see.

They loved sleeping on a river barge in Kanchanaburi. They adored the hostel in Kuala Lumpur because it had little cubby holes for their toys. Bunk beds make their hearts sing. An included breakfast of toast and jam rocks their world. A hammock is the best thing ever. Sleeping on a train is an incredible adventure. They are simple creatures, not jaded, as we can be.

Budget travel with kids

Budget Travel is Torturing Kids

I was sad and disappointed that another nomadic travelling family was criticised for ” torturing their kids”. They were having a wonderful time out exploring the world as a family. Kids enjoy the outdoors, being free, a bit of improvisation, so long as mum and dad are there. Their critics came from the press and from family who just didn’t ” get” it. It’s very common for family not to get it. Parents love their kids and want what’s best for them and if those parents decide that travel would be brilliant for their precious family – leave them be. Maybe those accusers need to see life through a child’s eyes before they make judgements based on adult values.

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gabi klaf

Sunday 9th of February 2014

do you know how much i love you dear one? your kids are great and either way with or without the perks of the 'extras' they want a happy mom and dad who want to spend time with them, right? all the rest is just details. you rock. gabi

Victoria

Wednesday 30th of October 2013

So true. My 11 year old son and I took the coach from Berlin to London in January this year. It's not cheaper than flying of course but we booked with a "youth" group travel company and it included a 2 * en-Suite hotel too that was just fine and made the whole trip extremely cheap.

I couldn't believe how well he coped on a 23 hour coach that also did a loop picking people up in various cities too. I was so worried that he would whine or get bored, but he loved having his blanket, pillow and all his things that I took from home, to make him more comfortable!

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Wednesday 30th of October 2013

I know Victoria! People stress about taking kids on long car trips, even. They go out and buy them tablets and DVD players and stuff to keep them busy. It's TOTALLY unnecessary and I don't think it helps the kids at all

Suzanne Fluhr (Just One Boomer)

Tuesday 29th of October 2013

The key is that they are still at ages where they think you know what you're doing. As long as they're with you, they're happy. (This is not to say you don't know what you're doing!) At some point they will think you are the lamest beings on the planet (typically between ages 15 and 25---for boys anyway---other than Nancy (bike)'s twins.) Later, you'll all enjoy reminiscing together about ".....Remember the time our Crocs were washed away in the flood and then Mum ate that worm she discovered because half of it was missing in her mango."

Jackie

Sunday 20th of April 2014

To true Suzanne. Our son started backpacking around SE Asia before he was one, at least one trip a year if not more. In 2001 we travelled for most of the year and not one complaint. 20 hours on a train? No problem. Wading through floods in the middle of the night in Northern Thailand? An adventure! Around 14 he lost interest and didn't want to come anymore. I stupidly convinced him to travel to Sumatra last year and the photos of the looks on his face....hated it. I'm hoping he'll come back to travel later on. Meanwhile I have my 2 daughters 5 and 11 to drag around and luckily they love it as much as me...for now :)

Zai Zulkifli

Tuesday 29th of October 2013

Great post!

Renee - RambleCrunch

Tuesday 29th of October 2013

Spot on, Alyson. Recently we spent a week at a luxury 5-star place here in Mexico (was free) and even though the room was a little slice of heaven, it was a sterile, boring experience. "Travel in the bubble" we call that.

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Alyson is the creator of World Travel Family travel blog and is a full-time traveller, blogger and travel writer. A lifetime of wanderlust and now over 7 years on the road, 50+ countries allowed the creation of this website, for you. She has a BSc and worked in pathology before entering the travel arena and creating this website. World Travel Family Travel Blog has been helping you travel more, better and further since 2012, when Alyson and James first had this life changing idea. On this site you can find endless travel information, tips and guides plus how to travel, how to fund travel and how to start your own travel blog.