I’m going to say what I really feel (surprised, right?) and that is, long term family house sitting as part of family travel, isn’t for us. Of course, that doesn’t mean it’s not for you, plenty of families house sit, find good house sits, and enjoy it. But for us, as long term family travellers house sitting doesn’t really work, it’s not our style of travel. Mostly. I’m not saying we’ll never do it again, we’ve done it three times so far when we’ve been stationary in London, not when we’ve been actively travelling. Generally house sitting as a family is too hard to organise, too restrictive and too stressful for me and I’ll look at every other option before going for house sitting.
Now, last time I mentioned in public that I don’t much like house sitting, some random had a go at me. I can’t remember exactly what he said and have no idea who he was, but, quite frankly, I don’t care what you think, dude. I don’t like it much and I’m sticking with my opinion. So here goes with the post.
If You’re New, What is House Sitting?
I didn’t know house sitting existed until a few years ago and it’s quite likely, if you’re new to the travel scene, you won’t know either. So what is house sitting?
People who own houses sometimes go away, travelling, for business or on holiday and need someone to look after their pets, gardens, or just their houses. Sometimes they even need people to help run a business while they are away. If they don’t have friends or neighbours to help, and don’t want to pay a local professional pet or house sitter, they will turn to the house sitting agencies to find volunteers, people who will gladly stay in their houses for free as part of their own travels or chosen cheaper lifestyle.
The house sitters normally work for free, but some owners are prepared to pay. Some owners will throw in use of their cars if the property is remote. Beware, if travelling internationally to house sit, immigration can get narky about it, they sometimes see it as employment in their country even if no money changes hands. It’s best not to mention house sitting at immigration.
This is a pretty sweet deal to some people and various lifestyle travellers save thousands of dollars in hotel payments by travelling around the world staying in other people’s houses. That’s great for them and I’m glad they enjoy it, some of my best friends are involved in family house sitting. Some even make businesses out of it, they set up blogs and facebook pages selling courses on how to be great house sitters and score the best sits. House sitting is a big industry these days and highly competetive. Most travel bloggers will post affiliate links to the house sitting agency websites, they make commission on new sign ups, and I’m going to do that too. I am a member and we do occasionally look for sits when we’re not travelling. If you’re going to join the link below gives you an insider discount. But I’ll say up front that finding a gig through this agency is hard, too hard for me and after 2 memberships I will never renew again. All of our house sits have been offered to us by readers, we’ve had no success with Trusted Housesitters because I just don’t have the time or energy to put into it when I can book a hotel or apartment in minutes through our favourite, Agoda.
Why We Don’t Like Family House Sitting
We’re actually looking for house sitters for our house in Romania, so I can’t say we’re not involved in the house sitting scene, we are. We also house sit in London occasionally when chef is working, it’s OK, but to do it while we’re travelling would be difficult.
I’m also not going to say we are never going to house sit again, we might, and knd readers often contact us offerring us a sit while they go on holiday.
- You have to pay to join the agencies. If you don’t find a sit, that’s money down the drain.
- Finding good house sits is hard, it’s competetive and very time consuming.
- Family house sitting gigs are much harder to find again, most people want singles or couples.
- I’m wary of other people’s dogs around my kids.
- The amount of time it takes to trawl through the house sitting agency emails, looking for sits, is more than I’m prepared to put in. Finding a house sit has to be high on your priority list.
- House sitting makes me feel like a free-loader.
- House sits are normally in residential areas, far from where we, as travellers or tourists want to be.
- I hate the expression “live like a local” I probably should clarify that, see the end of the post.
- I enjoy being around other travellers in hotels or guest houses, house sitting is too isolating.
- I’d rather eat out, so having a kitchen to cook in isn’t an advantage. I can stay home for that.
- Time and place restrictions go with house sitting. I like my freedom too much to be tied down.
- I constantly stress about my kids breaking or marking something ( it’s never happened thankfully)
- I’m over slow travel, I get bored.
- Being in other people’s houses feels weird to me, not even as a guest when they’re there.
- The clean up job at the end of a house sit, to leave the whole place immaculate and stocked with food, is massive. As a clean freak and perfectionist, this part is hell for me. Hiring a cleaner would help somewhat.
So generally I just find family house sitting far too stress-y, too time consuming and too restrictive. I’m not the only one, some other family travellers feel the same, but most seem to love house sitting. That’s fine!
When Does Family House Sitting Work?
The only time I consider family house sitting is in the ultra-expensive destinations, for medium-long term stays, not really as part of “travel” where we’re constantly moving with little time or inclination to plan ahead. London when Chef is working, that’s basically it. But I can see how it would work well in most cities in the more expensive parts of the world. In cheaper countries, where we can find a guest house or hotel from upwards of $10 per night, it’s not worth it to me at all.
If you particularly need to rent an apartment or house for the style of living they provide, house sitting may suit you down to the ground. In that scenario I’d far rather pay to rent somewhere ( as we did in London for 8 months), but if time to stay was short I’d start looking at the house sitting options. We’ve recently had more success with AirBnb in London, finding apartments for month long stays at around half standard hotel costs, similar prices to standard renting.
The “Live Like a Local” Thing
This is why the above expression makes zero sense to me.
We live in a village in rural Romania. We live in a traditional, 100 year home, with no heating other than a wood stove, we chop our own wood, we have temperamental water that freezes in winter and runs dry in summer, we have seasonal mud and very limited facilities. We shop at the farmers markets and in our nearest small supermarket. We mix with our neighbors, help them out, attend church and family events and struggle to get by in their language.
So do we ” Live Like The Locals?”
We don’t work in the fields to grow crops, we don’t spend all summer building hay stacks for winter, we don’t fatten and then slaughter our own pigs for a Christmas feast, our kids don’t go to the local school, we’re not reliant on local health care, we have a car, not a horse. Of course we don’t live like the locals! We live among them, we love them and we love this village, but we will never live like them. We will never fully understand their customs and traditions, we will never dress like them or have their sense of community or belonging, we don’t have their faith in the church.
That “live like a local” expression really bugs me. ” Live where the locals live” would be better.
So that’s my take on family house sitting. A ten minute response to a friend’s post on long term house sits this morning. I just felt a need to clarify. Any questions? Want to pick a fight? The comments section is all yours 😉
Meanwhile, you can join the agency, with our discount, here should you wish to. Clearly, I’m not going for the hard sell. Have fun, your way, whatever that may be.